Will there be nudity?
Not necessarily, or required. Nudity is optional in our seminars, as you will learn tantric exercises that can be done fully clothed. This creates a safe environment, allowing you to begin exploring Tantra within you comfort zone. However, the majority of people choose to be nude or partially nude in some of the exercises.
What kind of things are we going to do?
Some of the time you will explore by yourself, with a partner and then there are group processes, mainly about communication, in groups of four people. There will be a morning breathing meditation every day. We demonstrate each partner or group process beforehand so that you get an idea of what's involved.
If we participate as a couple, can we work together exclusively?
Yes, you can. The choice is entirely yours. Towards the beginning of each seminar, there is time set aside for all participants to share their intentions and boundaries with the group.
Is it ok to come as a single?
Yes. Exploring the path of Tantra as an individual allows you to develop tools that will enhance your self-awareness, self-love, and future relationships. After the seminar, you can practice the exercises you learnt by yourself as a meditation or with another tantric partner you might meet in the seminar. Here is a quote from Margot Anand that is pertinent to this question: "Don’t count on sex to be the door to intimacy. It’s the other way around: first develop intimacy skills, then make love to enjoy them".
If I come as a single, do you provide a partner for me?
There are always the same number of men and women present who partner with each other. We do not partner you up with another person, but you choose each other in especially designed communication exercises. This can be quite challenging for some people. The most important thing to remember is your intention for attending the workshop. Are you attending in the hope to meet the perfect soulmate? Or are you looking for a casual aquaintance? Are you hoping to improve your relationship skills and attract more love and better communication into your life? Whatever your intention is, we encourage you to open your heart and see all other participants as the god and goddess they truly are. Everyone who comes to a workshop is your ally, and
What are "paired singles"?
Most of our workshops are open to couples and individuals, however, some are open only for couples and paired singles. "Paired singles" are people who might have met in a previous workshop and have decided to pair up for the purpose of taking more workshops together. Typically, paired singles will register together for a workshop.
Will there be a gender balance?
Yes. We always have an equal number of men and women present so there is partner for everyone to work with. We appreciate individuals registering early.
What is the general age group in the seminars?
Our seminars attract a wide age range. Our oldest participants were a couple in their early 80's years, our youngest a woman in her late teens. We design the exercises in a way that allows people of all ages to participate fully. We have no control over who registers for our events, hence we won't know the average age until we meet the group. It usually fluctuates between 40 and 55.
May I choose to participate with a partner of the same sex?
Yes, however, in some exercises we recommend that a man and woman work together, unless you are attending with your same sex love partner. In over 8 years of teaching thousands of participants, we had a few female couples and only one male couple.
I heard that Tantra is all about sex. Will there be sexual activity in the seminar?
Tantra is about much more than "just sex". It is a spiritual path that includes everything in our lives, and sex happens to be part of it. The focus of our seminars is to present tools and methods that you can integrate into your life to live more ecstatically in and out of the bedroom. There is no explicit sexual activity, such as intercourse or oral/genital contact in our seminars. Our professional boundary these things belong into the couples' private place.
Are you available for hands-on work in your private Tantra coaching sessions?
In our private coaching sessions we give you techniques and tools to become more intimate with each other and learn more about Tantra. In this professional role we are not available to touch our clients or have any form of instructional sexual activity with them.
Do yo offer Tantra coaching for singles?
No. While we believe that both individuals and couples can gain much from private Tantra coaching, we are not available to work with individuals.
Will there be genital contact?
The focus of Timeless Loving: A Gentle Introduction to Tantra is on the exploration of energy and communication. Genital contact is not part of any of the exercises. However, if you and your partner establish your boundaries that include genital contact, it is your prerogative to include it when appropriate. The more advanced seminars may include hand-to-genital contact if so desired by both parties.
Any more Questions?
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